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Which One Was Neighbor?

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Parable of the Good Samaritan

(Luke 10:25-37)

The Gospel for this Sunday, July 14, 2103 is very familiar to most of us. There are even ministries named after it, the Good Samaritan Ministry providing assistance to those in need.  This week, in his first trip outside the Vatican, Pope Francis referred to the parable in his homily in Lampedusa.  Lampedusa is the southern Mediterranean island which is a major point of arrival for impoverished immigrants, mostly from Africa and the Middle East, seeking to reach Europe.  Lampedusa is much like our border areas between the US and Mexico.

According to John Allen, Vatican correspondent, authorities estimate that as many as 20,000 migrants have died since the late 1990’s attempting to cross the Mediterranean Sea by boat en route to Europe, with survivors generally ending up in detention centers in settings such as Lampedusa.  Pope Francis made a bold statement by making his first trip outside of the Vatican to be in solidarity with the migrants.  He began his remarks Monday by saying he had read recently of a tragedy in which migrants died while trying to make a boat crossing, and the thought of it was “like a splinter in the heart that causes suffering.”  “I felt the duty to come here today to pray, to perform a gesture of closeness, but also to awaken our consciences so that what happened doesn’t repeat itself,” he said.

He compared apathy in the face of the suffering of immigrants to the Gospel story of the Good Samaritan, in which a half-dead man lying in the street is ignored until the Samaritan finally stops to help.

“So many of us, and I include myself, are disoriented,” the Pope said. “We’re no longer attentive to the world in which we live. We don’t care about it; we don’t take care of what God created for all; and we’re no longer capable even of taking care of one another.”

“When this disorientation takes on the dimensions of the world, it leads to tragedies such as what we’ve seen [here],” the Pope said.

He spoke out against the “globalization of indifference” that leads to tragedies like the deaths of so many migrants seeking a better life.

 My Reflection

When I’ve prayed with this parable before, I have always really resonated with the biblical character that stopped to help and felt pretty good about how I live my life.  It really has been a “feel good” parable until this week when I prayed with the parable and Pope Francis’s homily from Lampedusa.  This homily and some of the commentary from John Allen really helped me to get in touch with something that makes me a little uncomfortable and is pretty challenging…..the thought that I, too, can become disoriented and fall into the trap of globalization of indifference that Pope Francis spoke of and not just as it relates to immigration.  I had to come to the sad realization that I, too, at times pass my neighbors who are in need.  Sometimes those neighbors are friends, sometimes strangers and sometimes family.  I only came to this realization by placing myself in the gospel scene and begging the Lord to place me with whatever character I needed to be with.  The Lord gently revealed that I, too, have been the other biblical characters who have not helped for various reasons.  Who represents the immigrants in your life symbolically or realistically?

Be honest with the Lord and expect Him to be honest with you!

Imaginative Prayer Experience

I invite you to place yourself in the scene of the Good Samaritan Parable using Ignatian Contemplation, read the excerpt from the homily below and ponder the questions that Pope Francis posed…….

The following is an excerpt from the homily:

In this world of globalization we have fallen into a globalization of indifference. We are accustomed to the suffering of others, it doesn’t concern us, it’s none of our business. The globalization of indifference makes us all “unnamed,” leaders without names and without faces. “Adam, where are you?” “Where is your brother?” These are the two questions that God puts at the beginning of the story of humanity, and that He also addresses to the men and women of our time, even to us. But I want to set before us a third question: “Who among us has wept for these things, and things like this?” Who has wept for the deaths of these brothers and sisters? Who has wept for the people who were on the boat? For the young mothers carrying their babies? For these men who wanted something to support their families? We are a society that has forgotten the experience of weeping, of “suffering with”: the globalization of indifference has taken from us the ability to weep! In the Gospel we have heard the cry, the plea, the great lament: “Rachel weeping for her children . . . because they are no more.” Herod sowed death in order to defend his own well-being, his own soap bubble. And this continues to repeat itself.

 Let us all stop and ponder what Pope Francis asked the audience to consider:

  • Let us ask the Lord to wipe out [whatever attitude] of Herod remains in our hears
  • Let us ask the Lord for the grace to weep over our indifference, to weep over the cruelty in the world, in ourselves, and even in those who anonymously make socio-economic decisions that open the way to tragedies like this.
  • “Who has wept?”
  • “Who in today’s world has wept?”

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Feel Free to “cut and paste” any of these texts for Prayer or Worship Aids and simply add this reference:

“Taken from the The Hopeless Romantic: Falling in Love with God site of Patti Clement. www.patticlement.wordpress.com Used with Permission.”


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Beyond Jealousy

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As I sit tonight pondering how Jealousy has destroyed Relationships and Lives in my own family and within the families of many others that I journey with, I opened an email with Fr. Henri Nouwen’s Daily Meditation on Jealousy that I felt I should share with you all……………..

Beyond Jealousy

Jealousy arises easily in our hearts.  In the parable of the prodigal son, the elder son is jealous that his younger brother gets such a royal welcome even though he and his loose women swallowed up his father’s property (Luke 15:30).  And in the parable of the labourers in the vineyard, the workers who worked the whole day are jealous that those who came at the eleventh hour receive the same pay as they did  (see Matthew 20:1-16).   But the Father says to the older son:  “You are with me always and all I have is yours” (Luke 15:31).  And the landowner says:  “Why should you be envious because I am generous?” (Matthew 20:15).

When we truly enjoy God’s unlimited generosity, we will be grateful for what our brothers and sisters receive.  Jealousy will simply have no place in our hearts. ”

By:  Henri Nouwen

My Thoughts  to Ponder About this Matter 

  • How can I/you be the reconciling love amidst the jealousy?
  • Am I/you doing my/your inner work to nurture and heal the hurts within our own hearts caused from the alienation?
  • Am I/you humble enough to look beyond and love even when we are being persecuted?
  • How can I/you help others experience God’s unlimited generosity to inspire them to be grateful for what my/your brothers and sisters in Christ receive?

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“Taken from the The Hopeless Romantic: Falling in Love with God site of Patti Clement. www.patticlement.wordpress.com Used with Permission.”


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Being in the World Not of it!

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Jesus Is in the World Not of It

The first thing I prayed with this morning was Today’s Daily Meditation from the Henri Nouwen Society.  I was so moved by it that I have copied it for you below:

The Beatitudes offer us a self-portrait of Jesus.  At first it might seem to be a most unappealing portrait – who wants to be poor, mourning and persecuted?  Who can be truly gentle, merciful, pure in heart, a peacemaker, and always concerned about justice?  Where is the realism here?  Don’t we have to survive in this world and use the ways of the world to do so?

Jesus shows us the way to be in the world without being of it.  When we model our lives on his, a new world will open up for us.  The Kingdom of Heaven will be ours, and the earth will be our inheritance.  We will be comforted and have our fill; mercy will be shown to us.  Yes, we will be recognized as God’s children and truly see God, not just in an afterlife, but here and now  (see Matthew 5:3-10).   That is the reward of modeling our lives on the life of Jesus!

by: Henri Nouwen

For sometime now, I have turned to the Beatitudes when really begging for the grace to “know” Jesus because I have felt that the Beatitudes really represent Jesus’ value system.   However, at times, just as Fr. Nouwen states above, I have felt a bit overwhelmed with the task at hand.  Being my own worst critic, I often times beat myself up when I feel I am not living up to the model Jesus lays out for us of being truly gentle, merciful, pure in heart, a peacemaker, and concerned about justice.

Jesus Do you Know Him

What the Lord revealed to me in my prayer time is that when I move my focus from modeling Him and become self-absorbed with evaluating myself and worrying about what others will think or how others have treated me, I fall into the deadly trap of one of the seven deadly sins, namely, pride.  It is usually subtle and begins with self-pity and I usually find myself dwelling on a list of who has hurt me and who has not celebrated life with me and who is it that makes me feel like an outsider.  It is when my focus becomes about me and not about Jesus that I fall into my downward spiral.

On the other hand, when I am able to really spend time with Jesus and beg for the grace to “know” His heart and to teach me how to be in the world and not of it, He does show me how to find Him in all things in the here and now and not get caught up in what can be a world of self-absorption.   It is only then that I allow myself to be comforted and receive His love and mercy and find the strength, courage and wisdom to go forth and be Him to others.  At this point, even when I am feeling hurt or persecuted, I can find confidence in knowing I am doing what has been revealed to me by Jesus and trust that He will fill in whatever gaps I may have in my humanity.   As Fr. Nouwen claims, when I am able to model my life on the life of Jesus and really strive to live out the Beatitudes, a whole new world really does open up.  I am able to look past and forgive those who hurt me either intentionally or unintentionally and continue to see the face of God in them and others and bring His love to all.  It truly is amazing grace!

Read, Reflect and Pray with Scripture:

Matthew 5: 1-11         The Beatitudes

Helps:                           Imaginative Prayer Exercise                             

  • Imagine yourself on the Mount of the Beatitudes in the Holy Land and place yourself in the scripture passage.
  • Use what St. Ignatius of Loyola refers to as the application of senses and read the passage slowly a couple of times and then reflect on the passage asking yourself the following:
    1. What do I hear in the crowd….what do I hear in the depths of my soul?
    2. What do I see…..what really catches my attention?
    3. What do I smell…..what memories do the wonderful smells bring up for me?
    4. What do I taste……can I taste the salt in the air coming in off the Sea of Galilee…..can I taste the goodness of the Lord?
    5. What do I feel……….what emotions surface as I spend time with each of the Beatitudes…..do I have one underlying need that I really need to turn to Jesus with and ask for healing?

Thoughts to Ponder:

  • How might the Beatitudes help you in living counter-culturally in our world of self-absorption?
  • What are the areas in your own life where Jesus might be inviting you to model His life and allow a whole new world to open up?
  • Are you willing to put your total focus on Jesus and not succumb to the trap of our first world culture of self-absorption?  Why or why not?

Let me hear from you in the comments or click the “like” button if this post speaks to you……

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Feel Free to “cut and paste” any of these texts for Prayer or Worship Aids and simply add this reference:

“Taken from the The Hopeless Romantic: Falling in Love with God site of Patti Clement. www.patticlement.wordpress.com Used with Permission.”